Tuesday 10 April 2012

Challenge Your Fears!

We've got to challenge our fears, because when we do, we bring to the surface those very traits that we need to do work on eg. addiction, hatred, racism, inferiority etc. and we bring awareness to the very lessons we are meant to learn. We need to embrace our fears with an openness and a trust that the situation we find ourselves in is perfectly staged and perfectly timed. We need to recruit wisdom to view our choices objectively, to see things differently and evolve spiritually.

To do this we need to be in the present. We have to remain free from blame and guilt. We need to be brave and willing to go within ourselves to unearth these dark secrets and bring them to the light so that we can question and examine them without prejudice.

We may feel fearful that we don't have a partner, or that something terrible is going to befall a loved one. We may fear not having enough money to see us into old age. We may fear ageing. Some of us may even fear not having enough experience or not meeting a parent's expectations. The list of fears is immense and specific to each individual soul's purpose.

However know this, that your individual karma that you have brought into this world, will attract specific life lessons that you will need to overcome in this lifetime. So, don't run away. Don't try and hide. Face your fears full on and know that you're not alone. All you need to do is ask for help. Pray for guidance and know that your prayers are always heard and always answered and trust that the divine powers that assist each and everyone of us will guide us and help us in making a more conscious choice. If we again make our choice out of fear, we will be given further chances to challenge the same fear over and over until we arrive at the point where we choose love, forgiveness and trust.

Guaranteed, if you face any fear you will find 'lack of love' as the root cause.

Take the fear of being alone. The reason we fear is because we are not open to connecting with our true nature which is love and is divine. We are created in God's likeness and therefore are spiritually connected. We are love. We will never be alone. We are surrounded by God's helpers in the spiritual realm. We just need to be open and present to experience it.

If we face our fear of being unloved, the truth is that we do not love ourselves and that we think of ourselves as unworthy of love. It is this fear that we show the world and it is that which we attract back to ourselves. We need to source our inner well of unconditional love and express love to ourselves and all of humankind because what we sow we reap.Then without trying or seeking it love will flow into our lives.

Don't self-confident people seem to attract success, luck and profit to themselves whereas a fearful person with low self esteem seems to attract failure and calamity? Compare the two. The confident person is well centred and connected from within. The insecure person feels a need to seek attention and praise and encouragement from external sources to complete themselves. They generally are the ones who blame and feel jealousy, envy and all host of negative feelings towards themselves and others as they try to access their power from without. Low self-esteem is a lack of self-love. It is the absence of connecting with that very essence of who we are which is love.

Fear of death! How can we fear death. It is the one occurrence of which we are all assured. We came from source and we will return to source, each and everyone of us. We came from love and we will return to love. We are not separate from love. We are surrounded by it. We just need to make the choice to walk in it and not fear, which is just the absence of it.

What of fearing being overpowered by someone? When we fear anything we create a negative charge for ourselves which attracts the very thing we fear. So by fearing being bullied, we create within ourselves a perfect victim and we invite the universe to send us all manner of bullies and abusers, so that we can learn the lesson which continues to challenge us. We remain disempowered because of the lack of love. When we fear, we are not living in the present. We are living in an unreal time out of the present, projecting ourselves with our thoughts into the future. We cannot fear when we are focused in the present. Right at this very moment as we stand here on earth, we are complete and whole. If we do not try and second guess the future or try and blame the past, we are perfect. There is nothing more that needs to be added to any of us to make us who we are. We just are.

Start to notice the very things that you are attracting to yourself, the kinds of people, the circumstances, your thoughts and feelings. Ask yourself: "What is it that I fear? If I am more than just my physical body and my five senses, if I am a divinely guided spiritual being, who has divine assistance just a prayer call away, if I am love then fear does not exist. Fear is a manufactured misperception. The only thing that is real is love."



So challenge your fears objectively. Stare them in the face and watch them dissolve with your new found understanding. Have compassion for yourself as you pass through the refinery of your own making.You can choose to learn life's lessons through fear thereby creating more bad karma for yourself or you can choose to learn through wisdom and knowledge. Choose to become conscious by choosing love.

I love you precious soul

Have a great week
Nicolette

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