Monday, 21 July 2014

Darkness



Why are we so afraid of our shadow side?

Why do we try and hide behind others flaws and weaknesses?

Why are we so ashamed of those traits we label as negative?

Why do we fear intimacy with others?



It is because we think we are separate. We believe subconsciously or perhaps consciously that we are not good enough. We think we are imperfect and shameful and we don’t want anyone to find out. We fear getting too close to anyone lest they uncover our dark secret. We wear the mask of people pleaser and do-gooder and point our fingers at everyone around us to divert the attention from ourselves. Our greatest fear is of others discovering our darkness.

We forget that we are all the same. Our fears are the same as everyone else’s fears. Our darkness has its roots in our material identity, the part of us that forgets it is a Spiritual being. We need to remember that our Spirit is having an experience of itself through the medium of physical form. Without our physical bodies there is no experience. All our external challenges are vehicles to reveal our Spirituality to ourselves. Our Spirit doesn’t have any work to do on itself in the realm of Spirit. There are no addictions, discomforts nor tests of courage or faith in the formless dimension. It is only when we are gifted with a physical body that feels pain and pleasure that we can experience the tug of war between discipline and freedom.

We have an array of emotions from negative to positive. God wouldn’t have given us the negative ones if He didn’t expect us to use them. We all have feelings of anger, frustration, sadness, hatred and so on. That is normal and to be expected. Our feelings are not who we are. They are expressions which signal to us if we are living from a place of love or fear. Feelings need to be expressed, acknowledged and heeded, but never suppressed. When we try and conceal our negative feelings because of the fear of judgement, we cause ourselves to suffer. We make ourselves ill.

When we allow our emotions to surface with the sub ordinance of ego to Spirit, then the mind and intellect can expose any misperceptions and settle the discord in the present.

Darkness is created out of fear, which is the off switch to love. Fear is the doubt we entertain when we forget our divine nature, our oneness with Creator. There is nothing to fear except fear itself. As you let go of fear the love within illuminates you and the dark evaporates. Fear gives you the opportunity to experience who you are, by experiencing everything you are not.  The dance between light and dark is a continuous cycle of forgetting who we are and self-realisation in the realm of duality.

Be the dual being that you are in this lifetime. Don’t fight it. Let the darkness act as a reminder of your powerful Spiritual identity.

Experience wholeness this week by embracing your dark and your light

All my love                                                                     Nicolette                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               

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