TRUTH

Why do we find it so difficult to tell the truth? Because we fear others finding out that we are as imperfect as them. We try and fool one another with our masks of perfection. We fool them, but worse than that, we fool ourselves.

If we could just let go of the need to impress others with our crazy lies, we would free ourselves to be who we are.

Here are two facts:

1. Everyone you are trying to impress and deceive is just as afraid of dropping their masks and being their authentic selves as you are.

2. It only takes ONE to change the status quo. If you brave it and drop your pretences you will give everyone else in your circle permission to be their unbridled selves.

Don’t be afraid. Be true to yourself. Be who we are and say what you want.

Every one of us was born honest, authentic and open. It is the most natural thing to be. Unfortunately we have been conditioned into dishonesty by our upbringing, by fearful people. We were taught to tell white lies and feed others fake compliments. We were conditioned to say “Thank you” and “It’s my pleasure” while we are choking in our displeasure. 

Don’t buy into your conditioned patterns. Challenge your upbringing, your education and religion. If your Yes is not Yes and your No is not No, what is the point of your existence? We are muddling our way through life like blind men in the game ‘Blind man’s bluff’.

Why do we battle to fathom what our partners, friends and colleagues want? Because we are all lying to each other and to ourselves.

Until we can confess what we want, we are going to continue manifesting what we don’t want. By hiding the truth from yourself or others is to live in denial and to be a prisoner to your bridled thoughts. You are not free.

Your lies are hurting you and everyone else. Take a step of courage in faith and earn your freedom from your fears today.

Tell the truth! You will be so relieved that you did. 

Have a great week

Love

Nicolette